There’s a growing push today to let young children choose their own gender identities, but let’s pause and think about what this really means. At an age where kids are just learning to tie their shoes or make friends, they’re suddenly being asked to make monumental decisions about their identity—decisions that even adults grapple with.
Children are curious, imaginative, and constantly exploring the world around them. They believe in superheroes, they change their favorite colors weekly, and they’re still learning who they are. Asking them to make decisions about their gender at such a young age doesn’t empower them; it confuses them. Children need guidance and support as they grow, not pressure to make life-altering choices they don’t fully understand.
This isn’t about stifling a child’s individuality or ignoring their feelings. It’s about acknowledging that kids are kids. Let’s allow them to grow up in a world where they can explore who they are at a pace that makes sense for their age, without the pressure of irreversible decisions.
If we’re asking children to make these choices before they even understand them, then we’re the ones creating the problem. Let kids be kids—let them focus on learning, playing, and growing without unnecessary expectations. It’s up to adults to provide the stability and guidance they need, so they’re ready to make informed decisions when the time is right.
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